Questions are the most amazing things that we can come up with when we want to learn about someone else.

Dale Carnegie in his best-selling book, “How to win friends and influence people” shares about the amazing power of asking good questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.

Have you been to a party and been the one asking all the questions and doing all the listening? If you have, you will probably agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting. You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!

If you’re a guy and ask a lady some great questions, you will often find yourself leap-frogging to final base, saving a lot of time and energy trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and really listening to what a person says is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do with anyone.

If you are a lady and want to stroke a guy’s ego and make him feel good then ask lots of interesting questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!

Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because people who’re genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are usually popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.

Here’s 21 questions to ask to get conversation jump-started. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.

Here’s 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl to get you started

1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?

2. What is you all time favourite book and why?

3. If you were to choose five people to invite to dinner – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?

4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?

5. If someone made a funny comedy movie about your life, which part of the story would be the funniest and why?

6. What was your favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them?

7. If you had a chance to go back in time and do something that you feel you should have done what would that be?

8. What’s the most hilarious experience you have had in your entire life?

9. Have you ever had a date with a person that is much fatter or slimmer than you and when you saw them for the first time what did you think?

10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?

11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?

12. If you instantly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?

13. If you do not like someone what do you normally do, show it or hide it and why?

14. What is more important to you in a woman – good looks or intelligence?

Time to get a little more personal!

15. Have you ever been caught naked in a public place – if so what were you doing?

16. What’s the difference between sex and making love and which do you prefer?

17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?

18. What turns you on sexual the most and why?

19. Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner and did they find out? If so, what happened?

20. Have you ever been caught masturbating? If you did, how old where you and who caught you?

21. Have you ever had sex with more than one woman at a time?

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